I was reading an article in Vogue recently about a woman and how she met and married her husband in a few months time. There was a qoute in there that stood out to me, that made me smile, it is how I feel on the subject.
"Love is not science, like physics or biology. Lovesis more like art. You see a painting and you know weather it works right away. You don't have to stare at it for years...."